Words That Matter: A Family Letter-Writing Challenge

In our fast-paced, text-heavy world, a handwritten letter can feel like a rare treasure. It takes time. It takes intention. And most of all, it reminds the person receiving it that someone truly sees them. Whether it’s a note of encouragement, a thank-you, or just a cheerful hello, this activity teaches kids (and adults) how words can connect, uplift, and make someone’s day. 

How It Works

Set a goal to write one letter per family member, per week, for the next four weeks (or more!). You can each choose your own recipients—or write as a team.

WEEK 1: Gratitude Letter

Write to someone who has made your life better.

Ideas: a teacher, coach, doctor, neighbor, or friend. Say thank you and tell them why their presence matters.

WEEK 2: Encouragement Letter

Write to someone going through a tough time or a big change.

Ideas: someone starting a new job or school, expecting a baby, recovering from surgery, or feeling lonely.

WEEK 3: Memory Letter

Write to someone you’ve shared special memories with.

Ideas: a grandparent, cousin, old friend, or sibling. Include one specific memory, and what you loved about that moment.

WEEK 4: Surprise Letter

Write to someone unexpected—just to make them smile.

Ideas: your mail carrier, a local librarian, a lunch staff worker, or a neighbor you don’t know well. Let them know they’re seen and appreciated.

Words That Last

Letters don’t get lost in a feed or disappear in 24 hours. They sit on desks, hang on fridges, and get tucked into drawers for rainy days. They remind us that we matter—and that someone cared enough to say so.

So grab your pens, gather around the kitchen table, and write your hearts out. Because in a world full of noise, kind words still cut through.